Things happen for a reason

OK I KNOW EVERYONE SAYS THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON AND YOU HAVE TO LET NATURE TAKE ITS COURSE. YES IN A WAY I UNDERSTAND THAT. HOWEVER WHEN IT COMES TO SOMEONE LOSING A CHILD I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WOULD BE BLESSED WITH ONE AND BE ABLE TO HOLD THE CHILD FOR 5 WEEKS BEFORE GOD TAKING THE CHILD BACK TO HEAVEN. I MEAN COME ON THOSE POOR PARENTS GO THROUGH HELL. MY BEST FRIEND JESSICA HAD A BABY BOY ON JULY 10TH AND TODAY WE LAYED HIS BODY IN THE GROUND. SHE WAS A TOTAL WRECK BUT THAT IS TO BE EXPECTED. THIS IS NOT HER FIRST CHILD IT IS HER THIRD BUT THE FIRST BOY. HE LAYED THERE IN THE FUNERAL HOME LOOKING LIKE A DOLL. HOW CAN SOMETHING THAT BEAUTIFUL AND SPECIAL ALREADY BE GONE. SO MANY OF US DID NOT EVEN KNOW SHE HAD HIM YET UNTIL WE GOT THE PHONE CALL OVER THE WEEKEND ABOUT THE DEATH. THEY HAVE NO CLUE HOW IT HAPPENED. THEY HAD FED HIM ON SAT. MORNING AT 6 THEN WENT BACK IN TO FED HIM AROUND 9 WHEN THEY LAID HIM BACK DOWN AFTER THE 6 AM FEEDING HE WAS FINE. CLOSE TO 9 THEY HAD NOT HEARD ANY NOISES SO THEY WENT TO CHECK ON HIM AND IT WAS ALREADY TOO LATE! WHY GIVE SOMEONE A CHILD ONLY TO TAKE THEM AWAY WHAT LESSON IS THERE TO BE LEARNED OTHER THAN WE ARE GUARNTEED TODAY NOR ARE WE PROMISED TOMORROW SO WE MUST LIVE TODAY LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW WHICH FOR SOME OF US IS A LOT HARDER TO DO BECAUSE WELL LETS FACE IT I LIKE TO PLAN THINGS. THIS HAS TAUGHT ME NOT TO TAKE THINGS FOR GRAUNTED NOT EVEN THE SMALL THINGS IN LIFE. RYAN AND I WENT TO THE FUNERAL TOGETHER ALONG WITH MY FRIEND JEN IT WAS A VERY SAD DAY THEN JEN AND I WENT TO WORK AFTER WORDS WHICH WAS KIND OF HARD. IT WAS NICE THOUGH BEING ABLE TO SEE SOME OF THE PEOPLE THAT I KNEW WHEN I WAS A LOT YOUNGER I JUST WISH IT WOULD HAVE BEEN FOR OTHER REASONS OTHER THAN THIS SAD CASE. WELL I NEED TO HEAD OFF TO BED SO I CAN GO TO WORK IN THE MORNING. REMEMBER LIVE TODAY LIKE THERE WILL BE NO TOMORROW!!!!!!